Support for women navigating people pleasing, hyper independence or loneliness.
Helping you create boundaries, secure connections and authentic belonging
Maybe there was a time when adapting for others and having to carry it all yourself was the only options available. Now it’s keeping you stuck…
Boundaries, people pleasing, extreme self sufficiency and feelings of loneliness are all rooted in having to disconnect from your own needs and wants just to get by or survive.
And while these behaviours and nervous system states (hello fight/flight/freeze/fawn!) once protected you, they now get in the way of connecting with yourself and others.
You’re feeling exhausted, resentful and frustrated. You’re also ready to break this cycle.
• you didn’t have to hold everything alone anymore
• you were on your priority list
• you could set boundaries with confidence and ease (to guilt and anxiety!)
• you were able to trust yourself, others, ask for and accept help
• you learned how to regulate your nervous system
• loneliness could be replaced by belonging
•you were able to create supportive relationships and a sense of community
• you created genuine relationships based on shared values
Imagine if…
Words from people I have supported