Therapy for women navigating people pleasing, hyper independence or loneliness.
Helping you create boundaries, secure connections and authentic belonging
Maybe there was a time when adapting for others and having to carry it all yourself was the only options available. Now it’s keeping you stuck…
Boundaries, people pleasing, extreme self sufficiency and feelings of loneliness are all rooted in having to disconnect from your own needs and wants just to get by or survive.
And while these behaviours and nervous system states (hello fight/flight/freeze/fawn!) once protected you, they now get in the way of connecting with yourself and others.
You’re feeling exhausted, resentful and frustrated. You’re also ready to break this cycle.
Welcome. I’m Angela.
I’m Angela Gallagher, a mental health & neurological Occupational Therapist, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) and relational therapy trainee. For over 12 years, in the NHS and private practice, I’ve been supporting people connect to what’s important to them and support them achieve their goals.
My approach blends mind and body. I recognise the importance of how our thoughts & feelings influence our view of self, others & how we connect to the world around us but also the role of our physiology & nervous system.
My years in the NHS has exposed the limitations of medical diagnostic models that can take a general, reductionist view of people as medical conditions, the mind/body as separate & don’t take in to account the complexity of what makes us us. We are the sum of many parts!
• you didn’t have to hold everything alone anymore
• you were on your priority list
• you could set boundaries with confidence and ease (to guilt and anxiety!)
• you were able to trust yourself, others, ask for and accept help
• you learned how to regulate your nervous system
• loneliness could be replaced by belonging
•you were able to create supportive relationships and a sense of community
• you created genuine relationships based on shared values
Imagine if…
Words from people I have supported